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So im in a situation here and need a bit of advice
Ok so there a guy i know in real life who today i found out has a crush on me.
(Why would that be a problem let me explain)
I also found out today that a girl who i was friends with hates me ish because she has a crush on him but he likes me.
Bigger problem: i kinda like this guy back as well but im not ready atm to rush into a relationship atm....but if i wait to long he might think im not interested so i might ruin my chance

So my problem here is this: do i say yes to when he asks me out?
Also if i accept when he ask me out will my problem of this girl hateing me for it get worse?
Advice please????

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Ipku Featured By Owner Edited Aug 3, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Just tell him the truth. Don't milk it out, but don't be blunt.

Just say that you like him too, but you're not quite ready because of recent events. 
I dunno, I suck at relationships, but I think it's best to be honest.

Edit: If she hates you because the guy she likes likes you, then I'm sorry, but that's not a real friend. There are more fish in the sea, she can either tell him straight up, or move on.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well i gave him a chance and ill see how he gose from there, ^^
As for the girl i guess ill see how monday is since she will find out by monday in class and if she was "a real friend" she be happy i think if not ill tell her straight
Thanks ippy :3
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BlueLuna12 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017  Hobbyist
You should try at least. Go out with him one time and then decide if it went go good or bad!
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I did and i had fun with him xx
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BlueLuna12 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist
That's good!:D (Big Grin) 
But to your 'friend', I have no idea to your problem. Sorry.Sweating a little... 
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Its fine ill find out tommorow i guess
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LadyManticore101 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Do what makes you happy, don't miss an opportunity just to spare someone else's feelings (been there done that it sucks, they broke up but are still friends). Keep an open mind to possibilities but don't forget to watch out for warning signs and red flags. If you are not ready then make your feelings clear, the biggest problem is lack of communication.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well i gave him a chance and ill see how that gose i guess :3
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LadyManticore101 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Best of luck to you!
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you xx
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char4595 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017
Mabye this guy is trying to use you after your recent breakup because he sees you as an easy target? How old is he and how long have you known each other?

With the girl issue...I dont know... I don't understand them most times. But if you said she 'was' your friend don't be worried about someone hating you. Believe me in college you will find yourself losing friends left right and center and some will hate you and you will hate others back.

So you shouldn't worry about the girl you will probably forget about her after a few months. With the guy you need time to properly evaluate the situation and consider if this is just rebound. If you go for him you could end up hurt or even in a happy relationship. If you don't then thats fine there are another few billion guys out there in the world.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I dunno, the guy is 16 and ive known him for a few weeks since he been on my ncs course.
He asked me out yesterday so i decided to give him a chance guess ill see how that gose.
As for the girl she in my class so monday im meh about, if she truely was my friend guess she be happy for me, i dunno
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char4595 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
Well I guess from now all you can do is wait to see how it goes. I hope it works out for you. You deserve to be happy.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
me too and thank you xx
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DarknessAndMadness Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017
I see it (tired as fu**) like: He ask you out? Make it test date, and see how it's coming in action, meaby help in MLB doings :3

or

you can ruin your chance for sake of YouTube and subscribers XD
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
He loves miraculous just like me and we been on (dates) a few times now <.< >.>
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DarknessAndMadness Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
Listen to your heart or YT XD
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I decided to give him a chance and were dateing ^^'
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DarknessAndMadness Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
Yay for you
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
^^'xx
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PenJen Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh my, what a problem o.o This is why I don't have crushes X'DD But I guess with the girl that hates you, you said she WAS your friend? So if she isn't then you really can't think so long on her feelings because she wasn't a friend. As for the guy Idk... if you feel something for him and you're ready? Then go for it, but if you're not ready then ask him for time. If he REALLY likes you then he wasn't worth it. That's all the advice I can give you Natman :) Good luck //hugs
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well he asked me out yesterday and i accepted him, guess we'll see how monday gose with her ^^''
But thanks pen *huggles*
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PenJen Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ohh good luck ^^ //huggles back
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thx sis <3
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PenJen Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yw sis <3 <3 <3 
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:iconnatalieguest:
NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
<3
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:iconpenjen:
PenJen Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
<3 
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WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2017
To me, the girl who hates you because the guy she likes likes you is childish to act this way, jealousy is a very ugly thing. If you like him back then you should go out with him if you want to, you two can take it slow and if the girl doesn't like it than to bad, she needs to move on, just because the guy she likes doesn't like her doesn't mean someone else won't like her like that, she will have to get over herself.

You do you and do what makes you happy.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well i accepted his feelings and now i guess i wait untill monday to see how the girl reacts to us being a couple x
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WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
I wish you luck.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thank you sweetie
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WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
No problem:)
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:iconnatalieguest:
NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:)
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WhitePedal25 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2017
:)
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